Where does this omniscient all loving God hide?

Please tell me how to find him/her/it. I have some questions.

Tell me why there are tsunami's, earthquakes, forest fires, volcanic eruptions, and other "acts of God". Why is there cancer, diabetes, heart ailments, arthritis, and unfortunately, on and on...

If "God" created all, then "God" created the disasters and illnesses above.

The intelligent design folks have a difficult time explaining that side of creation.

I care for my children better than "God" does.

If there is a "God", then the Xian image of a loving "God" has some major flaws.

And, don't give me the cop-out of "God moves in mysterious ways" or "who can understand the mind of God?".

more to follow ...